Monday, February 14, 2011

Procrastinators

I think i know why i'm such a lazy human being, i think it's from my parents, my parents are always procrastinating, well, it's not as much as procrastinating but it's more like asking you to do stuff, sure i'm fine in doing stuff for them, but every single thing, they even fight each other about it, it's not really a war between husband and wife, but it's just procrastination, one who don't do it ask another person to do it, and what's worse, it's like a chain reaction, my dad would ask my mom to do something, then my mom would ask me to do the thing that my dad ask her to do, now the thing is, i'm an only child, i get no one to ask to do the thing that my dad ask my mother to do and gave it to me to do, see, that's one of the high and lows of being and only child...

Okay, being an only child doesn't totally sucks, but it does get lonely, and i barely speak to anyone, and if i actually got a brother or a sister i think i would be more talkative than i am right now.

What's the difference of one who is an only child and having a siblings

Only Child
i.Get's all the attention *who else would get that attention, it's not like i have siblings..
ii.Some say they're spoiled *But i'm not, i'm not a brat.
iii.Probably get all the thing that he or she wanted *But i don't, and sometimes i even have to work for it, but since i'm a failure, i don't get anything anymore, i think the stuff that my parents gave to me are like sympathy gifts, but i'm still thankful for them, it's just that now i have to buy things on my own, and i have to use my own money which ironically my parents did gave, but i'm not like any other child, while most people might splurge on buying things like clothes and other stuff, i actually keep my money, and i don't want it to part from me, one time when i was a kid, i actually cried because my mom took my money to put it in a bank, but she didn't tell me she was taking it, i come home one day and found out my wallet is missing, and finally i found it on the drawer of my car *Empty*..
Yeah that was a sad day for me..
iv.Probably envy all those people who actually have a siblings
v.Actually can be a good adopted brother or a sister, because they don't have any brothers or sisters, every friends that they have, they will think of them like they're brothers and sisters instead of friends.

Having a siblings
i.Could actually be hectic for parents, cause there's lots of them to focus on, and some might not get the attention that one craves and might do something to get their parents attention
ii.They're not spoil, but there's a syndrome called first born or second born, i don't know which of it, but it means that they will be the most stubborn of them all..
iii.Probably would be hard to get the things they really wanted, but actually might get the things that they actually needed.
iv.Probably envy all those only child for not having to deal with siblings being nosy and a brat and might actually complain a lot about how their siblings don't give them privacy, like most melodramatic kids would say, "you're ruining my life."
v.Already have siblings and mostly would think of friends as just friends.

Hey, how the hell did i end up talking about siblings and only child.. anyway, i tried to get my parents to change and do things by their own instead of asking other people to do it for them, cause it's sickly contagious and it's really affecting me.


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